{"id":1565,"date":"2017-09-17T18:17:32","date_gmt":"2017-09-17T22:17:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=1565"},"modified":"2017-09-17T18:17:32","modified_gmt":"2017-09-17T22:17:32","slug":"open-up-and-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=1565","title":{"rendered":"open up and say &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Many times, I have said or sent this statement to someone I know.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cAs you may know, I am a strong believer that if you are thinking something lovely, about someone &#8211; you should indeed say it, out loud. \u00a0So today, I wanted to say this to you -\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is something I practice regularly on my husband, which appears in just how many times a day I tell him that I love him.\u00a0 As it comes unexpected, he usually laughs, but I always say to him, \u201c I was just thinking it \u2013 so I said it out loud!\u201d\u00a0 I have seen statements to the effect that \u2018it\u2019s not what you say, but how you act\u2019 that matters most. \u00a0\u00a0But I believe it\u2019s both, and it is equally important to say things you feel &#8211;\u00a0 especially when they are wonderful!<\/p>\n<p>Now it isn\u2019t always possible for me to tell you directly just how wonderful I think you are, or just how much I admire you and in what way.\u00a0 Certainly there are times when I fear someone will think me quite odd.\u00a0 (usually I do it anyway!)<\/p>\n<p>Here then is something I have begun:<br \/>\nIn my daily walk of gratitude,\u00a0 as I am smiling up at the sun,\u00a0 I say your name.\u00a0\u00a0 I include you in my gratitude,\u00a0 I thank you, I give thanks for you,\u00a0 I send you Love just where and when you might need it.<br \/>\nI send all good wishes out to you, in hopes that you,<br \/>\nare open<br \/>\nto<br \/>\nreceive.<\/p>\n<p>So there it is, my (not so little) secret &#8211;\u00a0 if today you have felt the glorious touch of the sun\u2019s rays on your skin.\u00a0 If for seemingly no reason at all, \u00a0you have received a smile or a kindness, \u00a0possibly today I said your name,<br \/>\nout loud.<br \/>\nAnd it is my hope that you have paused in your day to feel this.<br \/>\nas this is my gratitude,<br \/>\nthis<br \/>\nI am sending<br \/>\nto<br \/>\nyou<\/p>\n<p>I am wishing you well.<\/p>\n<p>And it strikes me as I am thinking such things, \u00a0why wouldn&#8217;t you take the opportunity to tell someone?<br \/>\nWhy would you ever, let a moment such as this<br \/>\npass?<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I do this quite quietly, \u00a0other times I am inclined to shout it out. \u00a0Either way these become some of the nicest words, one can say.<\/p>\n<p>And so,<br \/>\nwhat have you got to say&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>When you are open to giving<br \/>\nyou are also<br \/>\nopen<br \/>\nto<br \/>\nreceiving<\/p>\n<p>And that, I believe<br \/>\nis a very nice thought \u00a0\u2665<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many times, I have said or sent this statement to someone I know. \u201cAs you may know, I am a strong believer that if you are thinking something lovely, about someone &#8211; 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