{"id":1878,"date":"2018-02-16T16:10:21","date_gmt":"2018-02-16T21:10:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=1878"},"modified":"2018-02-17T11:23:00","modified_gmt":"2018-02-17T16:23:00","slug":"attaching-kindness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=1878","title":{"rendered":"attaching kindness&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some days you know, \u00a0I think,<br \/>\nI just don\u2019t have the strength\u2026<br \/>\nto take it all in<br \/>\nthe troubling details of the world<br \/>\non constant<br \/>\nfeed<br \/>\nand so instead I make a conscious decision<br \/>\nto not consume any<br \/>\n\u2018breaking news\u2019 of the day<br \/>\nto not have it entering<br \/>\nhere<\/p>\n<p>you might think this leaves me<br \/>\nuniformed, ill-informed or unaware<br \/>\non the contrary, I am very aware<br \/>\nI just make it my choosing what it is I wish to have<br \/>\ncoursing through my veins<br \/>\nscenting<br \/>\nmy skin<br \/>\npoisoning my well<br \/>\nor almost constantly<br \/>\nbreaking my heart<\/p>\n<p>this week, I take some books down from the shelves<br \/>\nbrush off a little dust,\u00a0 run my fingers gently over their covers<br \/>\nthen stack them in neat piles<br \/>\nI am preparing a care package of sorts for a young girl<br \/>\nwho, \u00a0it really pleases me to know, shares a love of reading<br \/>\nwhile I am more than happy to lend<br \/>\nthe next morning as I bundle them up, I am struck by a little pang of worry<br \/>\nI quickly jot down every title, and briefly touch each one<br \/>\nnow this bit of ridiculousness, \u00a0is not practicing non-attachment<br \/>\nperhaps though, this is how I am carrying my worry<br \/>\nfor the world<br \/>\nby allowing soft, gentle, wonderful, magical things to go out<br \/>\nunaccompanied<br \/>\non their own<br \/>\nand in trusting that they<br \/>\nthat\u00a0 we<br \/>\nwill<br \/>\nall<br \/>\nbe ok<\/p>\n<p>it is a worry, isn\u2019t it?<br \/>\nand I don\u2019t know the answers<\/p>\n<p>but certainly there are things we can do better<br \/>\nin choosing, consciously to be<br \/>\nkinder<br \/>\ngentler<br \/>\nin offering Love and compassion<\/p>\n<p>for each other<br \/>\nto<br \/>\neach other<br \/>\nand with<br \/>\neach other<\/p>\n<p>and<br \/>\nin caring<\/p>\n<p>certainly we<br \/>\ncan do<br \/>\nbetter<\/p>\n<p>for this world&#8230;<br \/>\ncause I am kind of<br \/>\nattached<br \/>\nto<br \/>\nit \u2665<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some days you know, \u00a0I think, I just don\u2019t have the strength\u2026 to take it all in the troubling details of the world on constant feed and so instead I make a conscious decision to not consume any \u2018breaking news\u2019&hellip; <br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=1878\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1879,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[7,4,6,5,10,8,3,9],"class_list":["post-1878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-attachement","tag-books","tag-inthistogether","tag-kindnesscounts","tag-lovereading","tag-nonattachment","tag-shelflove","tag-strength"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1878"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1888,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1878\/revisions\/1888"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}