{"id":2927,"date":"2019-05-10T16:42:17","date_gmt":"2019-05-10T20:42:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=2927"},"modified":"2019-05-10T16:42:53","modified_gmt":"2019-05-10T20:42:53","slug":"2927","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=2927","title":{"rendered":"attending to kindness&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This morning, first thing I grab the camera and go out to snap some more pictures<br>of the tulips, \u00a0kissed by rain<br>I just cannot get enough of these beautiful beings.\u00a0 <br>While I do not fancy myself much of a photographer,\u00a0 I just feel the need to try and capture a moments beauty, so that I can share it with someone..\u00a0 who may have missed it in their day.\u00a0\u00a0 Most probably,  exactly why I write nonsensical bits of ramblings here also, just to share little morsels of goodness.<br>Or little morsels of something\u2026.\u00a0 anyway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I shall not rest myself in the sorrows of the world.\u00a0<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This line is in my head today.&nbsp; Not even sure where it came from, except of\ncourse for a brief glimpse of the constant feed of rubbishy politics.&nbsp; Yet one more loud-mouth appears in a bizarre\ngrasp at power, and again attempts to turn back the clock.&nbsp; A young extremely narrow-minded MPP whose\nbody to my knowledge does not contain a uterus,&nbsp;\nyet dares to presume to tell me or anyone of my gender what I may and\nmay not do with my own body?&nbsp; What year\nis this??<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In speaking of this to my husband this morning over coffee,\u00a0 I say to him\u2026\u00a0 well I can\u2019t really tell you what I say to him &#8211;\u00a0 something less than gentle.\u00a0 Then I laugh and tell him this may be my new catch phrase,\u00a0 my new comeback for everything!\u00a0 To which I then laugh myself almost to tears, and my heart expands as I can see how much he is amused by my attempt at brash,  which quickly dissolves <br>into silliness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Minutes later,\u00a0 as he begins to tell me a story, I interrupt him with one of my own.\u00a0 (I do this)\u00a0 I then tell him that I will only interrupt him this one time, and he laughs because he knows me too well to believe it.<br>Today this feels good.\u00a0 After a few days of harsh tones and sharp replies, my love and I once again settle ourselves back into that comfortable feeling, the flow\u2026\u00a0\u00a0 of love.\u00a0 Of course, you know &#8211; it is all love and indeed its flow &#8211;\u00a0 the terse and the ease, everyday humans \u2013 us.<br>This morning, he has not rolled his eyes ( a gesture I despise) and instantly hurt my feelings.\u00a0 Instead,<br>we laugh, we listen, \u00a0we love and we both become more attentive to kindness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I ready myself to face the outside world,\u00a0 I think about how my lovely daughters are so very skilled at applying their make-up, while I have become quite averse to wearing mascara.\u00a0 <br>How I can see my face softening <br>and I am curious about what it is we wish to ..\u00a0 enhance, <br>the big bold beauty industry and its push <br>also (without sounding like I am now ancient) at this age \u2013 if I even care, <br>I know my face <br>so well<br> <br>If we do not augment,\u00a0 <br>will beauty<br>be seen&#8230;<br>again,\u00a0 a lesson from my flowers.\u00a0 I meet each one with gratitude.\u00a0 I suppose some enhance with stronger fragrance, more flamboyant petals and patterns.\u00a0 Still each one appears beautiful in their own individual way and for me, not one gets overlooked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At work a friend tells me that every Friday she gets a text from her brother,\u00a0 a simple \u2018Happy Friday\u2019<br>if she doesn\u2019t hear from him, she initiates<br>and I think to myself,\u00a0 how kind.<br>This little nugget stays with me and I wonder if I may start something like this <br>with my sister..\u00a0 as a way of simple connection<br>I am also thinking that not a week should pass, that I have not sent <br>a Thank you <br>to someone. <br>(and gratefully, I don\u2019t think it ever does)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>if you have wandered this far with me today, let me now leave you this last little thing<br>I\u2019ve been thinking,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>if together,<br>we laugh, we listen,\u00a0 we love and we both become more attentive to kindness<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>perhaps this<br>is how we<br>will save the world.   \u2665<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, first thing I grab the camera and go out to snap some more picturesof the tulips, \u00a0kissed by rainI just cannot get enough of these beautiful beings.\u00a0 While I do not fancy myself much of a photographer,\u00a0 I&hellip; 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