{"id":3308,"date":"2020-02-05T18:24:44","date_gmt":"2020-02-05T23:24:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3308"},"modified":"2020-02-05T18:25:18","modified_gmt":"2020-02-05T23:25:18","slug":"saving-grace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3308","title":{"rendered":"saving grace&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This morning my hand feels as if it\u2019s being <br>twisted<br>painfully against its will<br>its been overworked<br>a day off, I am sunk into my chair of comfort<br>reading about the brain<br>and how it works<br>while across from me he goes from paper<br>to book, to shopping for wood-fired pizza ovens<br>today being our \u2018most-of-the-day-together\u2019 day<br>before he heads off to work<br>while outside voices are rattling about the loud-mouthed buffoon next door<br>I share a sly smile for a great lady of integrity who stands her ground<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>at the grocery store a loud horn sounds <br>and we turn to the car just to the left of us<br>where an elderly lady is waving for attention<br>can you help me, she says<br>a rather annoyed woman looks at her crossly<br>and continues walking<br>as my husband and I approach her open window<br>can you move those carts, she says quite sternly<br>pointing to the handicap parking spaces littered with abandoned shopping carts,<br>I have to park there<br>sure I say to her with a smile and immediately move to gather up the carts<br>(a personal pet peeve with me anyway this lazy inconsideration)<br>gruffly she sighs, I&#8217;m sorry to ask again, I&#8217;m tired of this<br>slowly she starts to ease her way to the parking space<br>while a woman in a big truck deems herself in more of a hurry and pulls in front <br>this lovely feisty old dear continues advancing forcing truck lady<br>to <br>back her truck <br>up<br>six or seven angry looking faces watch this bit of calamity<br>manifesting communal inconvenienced <br>outrage<br>one woman mutters her way into the store<br>just ahead of us <br>as I<br>smile wide<br>didn\u2019t take but a minute of my or my husband\u2019s time<br>and really, when does one not respond to someone asking <br>for help<br>people are funny, I guess\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>back at home<br>in the kitchen, he\u2019s whipped up some pizza crusts<br>so that I will have ease <br>when it comes to dinner time<br>and<br>I ask him if he knows how lucky he is<br>to have me<br>not the least bit  phased by my cheek, <br>says he knows about this <br>luck<br>I give his hair a quick trim, he showers and dresses for work<br>I fix his collar and savour a kiss<br>knowing well, the luck <br>is all mine<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>later,<br>I find the balm for sore hands is kneading a batch<br>of cinnamon buns<br>and stopping in a wintry garden to look at something <br>delicately <br>beautiful<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>such is love <br>my saving grace<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(and much better than politics)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a0 <br>some days the love songs <br>just seem to find me &#8230; 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