{"id":3620,"date":"2020-08-02T14:26:35","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T18:26:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3620"},"modified":"2020-08-02T21:14:50","modified_gmt":"2020-08-03T01:14:50","slug":"when-it-comes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3620","title":{"rendered":"when it comes&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Yesterday morning begins<br>with thinking about someone I am most grateful for<br>an aunt<br>and how I might tell her<br>just because <br>this <br>is what I\u2019m thinking today<br>(wondering if<br> she might think this weird)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>the afternoon comes with attending<br>an online funeral stream<br>with my brother-in-law for company<br>even though he is an ocean away<br>because <br>this <br>is how we do it now<br>witness,&nbsp; attend, <br>support <br>from a distance<br>while really cherishing the great value<br>of <br>hugs<br>we cannot give<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>later a chat with my mother-in-law<br>who this week will turn ninety-four!<br>who has called to say Thank you<br>that we were able to make sure she was <br>connected<br>to say good-bye to her brother<br>and the great blessing of this call, is that<br>no matter the circumstance<br>and the current enforced distancing<br>she and I will inevitably end up giggling<br>together <br>several times in conversation<br>which indeed proves to <br>be<br>a balm for both our spirits<br>we both moan a little about our aches<br>and then simply get on with this business<br>of <br>getting <br>on<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>has me thinking you know, about love<br>and where we might be<br>without it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and just how important it is<br>to tell someone <br>how much<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>the skies prove quite dreary today,<br>but a brief parting of cloud<br>and the sun breaks through<br>I grab my camera, and take my walk<br>through familiar paths<br>a light breeze brushes droplets from branches<br>in a gentle sort of <br>anointing<br>I take in the damp sogginess of the garden<br>as a kind of joy<br>for the nourishing<br>wander for a bit, talking to friends<br>checking on the fish <br>then as I am again nearing the house, <br>I realize<br>it\u2019s been softly raining on me<br>this <br>whole<br>time \u2665<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday morning beginswith thinking about someone I am most grateful foran auntand how I might tell herjust because this is what I\u2019m thinking today(wondering if she might think this weird) the afternoon comes with attendingan online funeral streamwith my brother-in-law&hellip; <br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3620\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3622,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[293,446,443,74,514],"class_list":["post-3620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-beingkindness","tag-inthiswritersgarden","tag-surroundyourselfwithlove","tag-toyouthisday","tag-rainydayfeelings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3620"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3620\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3624,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3620\/revisions\/3624"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3622"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}