{"id":3886,"date":"2021-03-10T16:03:48","date_gmt":"2021-03-10T21:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3886"},"modified":"2021-03-10T16:03:50","modified_gmt":"2021-03-10T21:03:50","slug":"abnormally-speaking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3886","title":{"rendered":"abnormally speaking&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What if,&nbsp;<br>you rarely read fiction&nbsp;<br>didn\u2019t ever pay&nbsp;much attention to the&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>best seller list&nbsp;<br>preferred&nbsp;a good deep dive&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>into biography&nbsp;<br>or learning something&nbsp;<br>new&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>what if you didn\u2019t much do <br>netflix\u00a0\u00a0<br>or really even which of those buttons to push\u00a0<br>didn\u2019t quite understand the\u00a0\u00a0<br>binge part\u00a0\u00a0<br>of\u00a0\u00a0<br>anything\u00a0<br>much preferred a good masterpiece\u00a0<br>theatre\u00a0<br>or hockey game\u00a0<br>even when, this left you little fodder\u00a0<br>for small talk\u00a0<br>\u00a0<br>what if you put your trust\u00a0\u00a0<br>in learning and research, and people\u00a0<br>much\u00a0<br>smarter than you\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and your faith in love\u00a0 <br>and\u00a0\u00a0<br>simple kindness\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>what if you made the decision <br>to not eat anything\u00a0<br>that had been killed\u00a0\u00a0<br>for you\u00a0<br>and felt a peace in the deepest part\u00a0<br>of your being, as the most\u00a0<br>natural thing, <br>no real decisions required\u00a0<br>not a case for judgement of anyone else\u00a0<br>just an innate sense of\u00a0\u00a0<br>kindness\u00a0\u00a0<br>for yourself\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>what if you learned to say no <br>without explanation\u00a0<br>put a period at the end\u00a0<br>and felt perfectly ok with that\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>left behind the shoulds <br>and the musts\u00a0<br>and the why doesn\u2019t she&#8230;\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>what if you filled yourself up so full\u00a0 <br>of love\u00a0<br>that even on the bad-ish\u00a0days\u00a0<br>bits of bright things\u00a0<br>couldn\u2019t help\u00a0\u00a0<br>spilling\u00a0\u00a0<br>out\u00a0<br>like little gold stars\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>what if you followed the sun <br>but admired the clouds\u00a0<br>as was the natural flow of\u00a0\u00a0<br>things\u00a0<br>that are<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>felt <br>deeply the world <br>and talked often to yourself<br>or the birds <br>\u00a0<br>what if you admired most\u00a0<br>those that\u00a0<br>brought their courage\u00a0<br>to the stepping-over-anyways <br>even if <br>the hurtles break\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and what then if you showed up\u00a0 <br>just as yourself<br>no self promoting picture roll required <br>just you<br>each <br>time <br>\u00a0<br>abnormally speaking&#8230;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u2665<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What if,&nbsp;you rarely read fiction&nbsp;didn\u2019t ever pay&nbsp;much attention to the&nbsp;&nbsp;best seller list&nbsp;preferred&nbsp;a good deep dive&nbsp;&nbsp;into biography&nbsp;or learning something&nbsp;new&nbsp; 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