{"id":3976,"date":"2021-05-19T12:59:53","date_gmt":"2021-05-19T16:59:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3976"},"modified":"2021-05-19T12:59:55","modified_gmt":"2021-05-19T16:59:55","slug":"like-it-was-meant-to-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=3976","title":{"rendered":"like it was meant to be&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When I was quite small, I was&nbsp;<br>fairly severely punished for being a slow eater&nbsp;<br>to my memory, more&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>than a few times&nbsp;<br>&nbsp;<br>at the place where I currently work&nbsp;<br>the speed of tasks is often mentioned&nbsp;<br>at what can be accomplished&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>and&nbsp;just&nbsp;<br>how many minutes, it should&nbsp;take&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>however, I have always, I believe\u00a0<br>whether because, or despite\u00a0<br>moved\u00a0\u00a0<br>at my own pace in the world <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I rarely if ever rush, or hurry <br>neither though, would I say\u00a0<br>do I doddle or\u00a0\u00a0<br>plod\u00a0<br>I simply move to my own kind of\u00a0<br>rhythm\u00a0<br>always have\u00a0<br>I am not on trend, or certainly\u00a0<br>on point\u00a0<br>I am really just&#8230;\u00a0 this\u00a0<br>as I am<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>which is of course, as you may guess <br>why I so value\u00a0<br>my garden\u00a0<br>more precisely my \u2018style\u2019 of garden\u00a0<br>which is one could say, rather lazy\u00a0<br>unregimented, free flowing\u00a0<br>to my thoughts, quite natural\u00a0<br>a little on the wild side\u00a0<br>(much\u00a0like my own personal style or lack\u00a0there of!)\u00a0<br>I don\u2019t much do manicured or\u00a0<br>perfection\u00a0<br>tidy and trim\u00a0<br>here I let things grow as they wish and most often,\u00a0<br>(even\u00a0to my husband\u2019s frustration)\u00a0<br>just where\u00a0they wish\u00a0<br>I do do boundaries, (as one must<br>sometimes to survive),<br>as a private person, I like fences<br>or more romantically, thoughts of a walled garden<br>I like sanctuary<br>\u00a0<br>really gardening for me is\u00a0<br>just watching  and <br>wandering<br>it is quiet observation\u00a0<br>of the flowers and the trees\u00a0<br>of the toads, the birds, the bees\u00a0<br>and the butterflies\u00a0<br>of the occasional cat who sneaks in\u00a0<br>the squirrels, the chipmunks, the rabbits\u00a0<br>the hawk\u00a0<br>of the regulars and the visitors\u00a0<br>and those that\u00a0<br>surprise\u00a0<br>the ones that have been planted\u00a0<br>and the ones that\u00a0<br>survive\u00a0<br>\u00a0<br>we are gentleness and wonder\u00a0<br>we are seekers and wanderers\u00a0<br>we are listeners and dreamers\u00a0<br>we watch the clouds and the skies\u00a0<br>and the\u00a0<br>sun\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>we chat in own respective languages <br>sometimes we\u00a0<br>curse\u00a0<br>we vent, we rage\u00a0<br>we\u00a0\u00a0<br>cajole\u00a0<br>we smile, we mope, we\u00a0\u00a0<br>comfort\u00a0<br>we always, always without a doubt\u00a0<br>we always comfort\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>we trust, we notice<br>and we<br>breathe&#8230; 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