{"id":4101,"date":"2021-08-27T12:52:53","date_gmt":"2021-08-27T16:52:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4101"},"modified":"2021-08-27T12:52:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-27T16:52:54","slug":"on-this-leg-of-your-journey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4101","title":{"rendered":"on this leg of your journey&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I was talking the other day, with a friend of my son\u2019s <br>about the strange-ness of the times\u00a0\u00a0<br>we are experiencing\u00a0<br>and just how it may be affecting many a life\u00a0<br>in different ways\u00a0<br>in this case young adults who felt they may have\u00a0<br>begun in earnest\u00a0<br>burgeoning careers, educations, adventures\u00a0<br>plans for the immediate and\u00a0\u00a0<br>futures\u00a0<br>only to have it all come to a rather unceremonious\u00a0<br>halt\u00a0<br>by circumstances way beyond anyone\u2019s\u00a0<br>control or for that matter\u00a0<br>experience\u00a0<br><br>has me thinking this morning, for some reason\u00a0<br>of a time for me, as a young teenager\u00a0<br>fifteen and subsequently sixteen\u00a0\u00a0<br>when unencumbered carefree days <br>were dramatically interrupted\u00a0<br>by a need for separate operations on both of my hips\u00a0<br>the uncertainties\u00a0\u00a0<br>talking with teachers regarding disrupted education\u00a0<br>and how it all would work (or not)\u00a0<br>a time when friends went on with life and\u00a0<br>living\u00a0<br>while you laid in traction, strung up to pulleys\u00a0\u00a0<br>dealing with bedsores\u00a0<br>a time when a friend\u2019s mother would travel\u00a0<br>the distance to visit\u00a0<br>but the friend, could think of better things to do\u00a0<br>than to sit\u00a0<br>in a somewhat uncomfortable environment\u00a0<br>missing out<br>(understandable by teenage\u00a0<br>standards)\u00a0<br>a time when high school dances and activities went on\u00a0<br>while you sat for the first time on the side of the bed\u00a0<br>to get your bearings,\u00a0supported by nurses\u00a0<br>before the difficulties of\u00a0<br>the simple act of learning to walk\u00a0<br>again\u00a0<br>a time when the constant presence of crutches\u00a0<br>don\u2019t much enhance one\u2019s party\u00a0<br>attire or the irresponsible, misadventurous need\u00a0<br>to run\u00a0\u00a0<br>and when you have sufficiently shed yourself of the\u00a0<br>bothersome things\u00a0<br>it is just about time, to go back\u00a0\u00a0<br>for the second round\u00a0<br><br>life is certainly altered and forever affected\u00a0\u00a0<br>by these sorts of interruptions\u00a0<br>years that at times feel much like a blur\u00a0<br>or a\u00a0<br>blip to some\u00a0<br>the many things that form, or rather\u00a0<br>inform us\u00a0\u00a0<br>as to the nature of how very little of life\u2019s unfolding\u00a0<br>is in our control\u00a0<br>and just how it is&#8230; we\u00a0\u00a0<br>deal\u00a0<br><br>this again is one of the reasons I speak much\u00a0\u00a0<br>about kindness\u00a0<br>as possibly we are always and forever\u00a0<br>developing our sense of\u00a0<br>self\u00a0<br><br>our wings on the way down\u00a0<br>as is said\u00a0<br><br>paths in life are quite often travelled with much\u00a0<br>uncertainty\u00a0<br>that\u2019s what makes it all the more comforting\u00a0<br>to sometimes be met\u00a0<br>with the understanding heart\u00a0<br>of just one\u00a0\u00a0<br>kind\u00a0<br>soul\u00a0<br><br>I hope in these days,  as well<br>in\u00a0 <br>offering it here <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>to always find myself counted <br>as one\u00a0 \u2665 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was talking the other day, with a friend of my son\u2019s about the strange-ness of the times\u00a0\u00a0we are experiencing\u00a0and just how it may be affecting many a life\u00a0in different ways\u00a0in this case young adults who felt they may have\u00a0begun&hellip; 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