{"id":4107,"date":"2021-09-11T12:31:47","date_gmt":"2021-09-11T16:31:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4107"},"modified":"2021-09-11T12:31:48","modified_gmt":"2021-09-11T16:31:48","slug":"cross-the-ts-and-dot-the-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4107","title":{"rendered":"cross the t’s and dot the i’s…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(also known as that time I noticed a four leaf clover, right in front of me)<\/em>

So it comes I tell him, tomorrow
time again
to\u00a0\u00a0
renew, review or\u00a0
renegotiate the terms of our agreement
twenty-nine years in the making\u00a0\u00a0
of\u00a0\u00a0
us\u00a0
hey, you signed the contract, I often say
to which he is also reminded that I gave him\u00a0\u00a0
ample opportunity to withdraw the offer\u00a0
before said\u00a0\u00a0
signing\u00a0
and we made our vows to what you think you know\u00a0
but of course\u00a0
you really have no possible idea of what\u2019s to come\u00a0
for better for worse,\u00a0
for richer,\u00a0\u00a0
for poorer\u00a0
in sickness and in health\u00a0
til\u00a0death do us part…\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

how about\u00a0
to laughter and to tears\u00a0
to strain and to triumph,\u00a0\u00a0
to bolster and support\u00a0
to madden and infuriate\u00a0
to gladden an\u00a0
inspire\u00a0
to comfort and cajole, to cheer and to boast\u00a0
and to sometimes\u00a0\u00a0
disappoint\u00a0

to be fully human, to be fully giving of all of\u00a0
one\u2019s messiness and moods\u00a0
to allowing one\u2019s growth and one\u2019s\u00a0
grace\u00a0
to touching, to feeling and to\u00a0\u00a0
space\u00a0

to\u00a0honouring, and to cherishing\u00a0
the cultivation of a\u00a0\u00a0
life\u00a0
together\u00a0
in gratitude for love\u00a0

to accepting, to encouraging\u00a0
and most importantly of all, to a kindness
in all things\u00a0

well then, I tell him\u00a0
twenty-nine years of this, <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I guess\u00a0
we\u2019ll just keep trying\u00a0 \u00a0\u2665 \ud83d\ude09 \u2665 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(also known as that time I noticed a four leaf clover, right in front of me) So it comes I tell him, tomorrow time again to\u00a0\u00a0renew, review or\u00a0renegotiate the terms of our agreement twenty-nine years in the making\u00a0\u00a0of\u00a0\u00a0us\u00a0hey, you signed…
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