{"id":4236,"date":"2022-02-02T15:06:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-02T20:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4236"},"modified":"2022-02-02T15:06:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-02T20:06:02","slug":"is-it-groundhog-day-or-am-i-talking-about-loving-kindness-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4236","title":{"rendered":"Is it groundhog day, or am I talking about loving kindness again&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This morning, I \u00a0<br>am quiet, contented joy\u00a0<br>with the most incredible bout of\u00a0<br>loving kindness \u00a0<br>bubbling up inside\u00a0<br>(*slight alteration in moods may occur,\u00a0<br>which is why I am telling you here)\u00a0<br>this then, is how this sort of thing begins\u00a0<br>\u00a0<br>last week, I sent a brief message of genuine appreciation\u00a0<br>to a writer whom I admire\u00a0<br>in no small part because I repeatedly find \u00a0<br>so much we have in common\u00a0<br>and I was blessed to receive a reply that my message\u00a0<br>was received, as intended\u00a0<br>and our hearts, have met\u00a0<br>\u00a0<br>last evening I received a message from someone\u00a0<br>very dear to my heart\u00a0<br>to say in part, that she had thought of me\u00a0<br>this stops me, in time and space\u00a0<br>how very much this simple act of kindness,<br>touched me\u00a0<br>I went off to bed, weary from a busy day of work\u00a0<br>completely satiated with\u00a0<br>gratitude\u00a0<br>\u00a0<br>this morning then, a day off\u00a0<br>waking with a smile, coffee with my lovely husband\u00a0<br>whom I love madly (in case I may have failed to mention it)\u00a0<br>and for which, this beginning of coffee and books, \u00a0<br>somewhat quietly,\u00a0<br>together\u00a0<br>I am everyday, and forever grateful\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>as well to the book I am currently enjoying\u00a0<br>which comes as a gift to the senses\u00a0<br>and has me looking up Italian cookbooks while wondering\u00a0<br>if I could make this just as lovely without the meat\u00a0<br>which is funny, as my husband is the real chef in the house\u00a0<br>and I am quite sure I have already blown\u00a0<br>my book budget for the month\u00a0<br>(but wait&#8230; 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