{"id":4643,"date":"2023-06-14T16:56:07","date_gmt":"2023-06-14T20:56:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4643"},"modified":"2023-06-14T16:56:10","modified_gmt":"2023-06-14T20:56:10","slug":"the-ways-in-which-we-hold-sanctuary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4643","title":{"rendered":"the ways in which we hold sanctuary&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I haven\u2019t yet said too much<br>about it<br>about how absolutely, endearingly wonderful<br>it all was<br>right from start<br>to<br>finish<br><br>how the evening before<br>someone both lovely and kind<br>would come in to the garden<br>and say to me,<br>oh my\u2026\u00a0\u00a0 I would never want to leave<br>and I would smile from my heart,<br>knowing<br>the true blessing<br>of<br>this<br><br>how we would gather here in<br>comfort<br>and welcome in<br>kindness<br>dogs would be loved and toads<br>admired<br>how food and drink would flow<br>and laughter would<br>ring<br>far<br>in to the night<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>how a morning would begin<br>as the day<br>opened<br>brightly, in solitary stillness<br>and a quiet, meditative <br>tidy up<br>from the night before<br><br>then a whirlwind of hair and make-up<br>things to be pressed<br>ties to straighten<br>boutonnieres to pin<br>and shoes<br>to<br>shine<br><br>on to<br>ooos and aaahs, and hurry, hurry, Hurry<br>We\u2019re going to be late!!!<br><br>to the moment, I see my son<br>greeting guests, as they arrive<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>to the very second, I take his arm\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>where every small joy of being his Mom<br>and every piece of my heart that comes<br>from my children<br>would suddenly begin to flow<br>uncontrollably<br>in great, great admiration and love<br><br>to a wedding day so perfectly fitting<br>to the loveliest couple<br>whose creative bond, unfailing commitment and<br>absolute love<br>shone on full display in the faces of each person<br>in attendance<br>who knows them<br><br>the magic of watching a fantastic group of friends<br>gather, support, dance and sing<br>in complete celebration of life<br>together<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>it was beautiful, it was<br>breath-taking<br>it was fun, it was<br>funny<br>it was<br>love<br><br>at its very finest<br>hour<br><br>and<br>under the brightest full moon<br>each of us were blessed<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>to carry a little of it<br>home<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>with<br>us  \u2665<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Gratitude\u00a0is not a passive response to something we have been given. 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Gratitude is not necessarily something that is shown after the event; it is the deep,\u00a0a priori\u00a0state of attention that shows we understand and are equal to the gifted nature of life.&#8221; \u00a0\u00a0~ David Whyte<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I haven\u2019t yet said too muchabout itabout how absolutely, endearingly wonderfulit all wasright from starttofinish how the evening beforesomeone both lovely and kindwould come in to the gardenand say to me,oh my\u2026\u00a0\u00a0 I would never want to leaveand I would&hellip; <br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=4643\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4645,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[291,1004,446,1002,74,1001,1003],"class_list":["post-4643","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-beinglove","tag-celebratelife","tag-inthiswritersgarden","tag-sonswedding","tag-toyouthisday","tag-weddings","tag-wegatherhere"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4643","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4643"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4643\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4648,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4643\/revisions\/4648"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4645"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4643"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4643"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4643"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}