{"id":5069,"date":"2025-03-08T18:01:19","date_gmt":"2025-03-08T23:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5069"},"modified":"2025-03-08T18:01:19","modified_gmt":"2025-03-08T23:01:19","slug":"where-would-i-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5069","title":{"rendered":"where would i be&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Today at the gas station<br>while my husband<br>fills<br>a car drives in,<br>and as it passes, I think<br>to myself<br>that looks almost like my Aunt Maureen<br>from there, thoughts wander<br>and<br>weave<br>how really lovely she was<br>how, I always thought of her<br>as<br>comfort<br>especially, when wrapped in her arms<br>and\u2026&nbsp; I wonder (again to myself)<br>if I told her<br>enough<br>how much I loved her<br><br>and, even though she\u2019s been gone<br>for many years now<br>today still feels<br>like the perfect time<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>International Women\u2019s Day<br>a day to celebrate<br>women<br>and possibly reflect on every<br>blessing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have known, do know<br>come from, and am surrounded by<br>remarkable women, strong women<br>resilient women, smart, beautiful<br>in every way<br>amazing, awe-mazing women<br><br>of course, my own mother,<br>my sister, Aunts, cousins, I have daughters<br>many, many women friends, some<br>very close friends<br>mothers of friends who have blessed me greatly<br>women I work with, women who have <br>touched my life<br>women I learn from, women I<br>admire<br>light posts, candles and keepers of<br>the constant flame<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>my hope is that I have given<br>at least some small part<br>of what I<br>have received<br>in love, in kindness, in<br>comfort,<br>in shoulder, in sweetness and<br>strength<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and today, we celebrate the very importance<br>of women<br>in gratitude, in equality, in<br>reverence<br>it is my hope,<br>to always say, I love you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>enough<br><br>as the worthiness of you<br>is infinite \u2665<br><br><em>\u201cWhen a woman thinks she is nothing, the little sparrows cry.<br>Who can defend them on the terrace, if no one has the vision of a world without slingshots?\u201d<br>~ Fatema Mernissi<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today at the gas stationwhile my husbandfillsa car drives in,and as it passes, I thinkto myselfthat looks almost like my Aunt Maureenfrom there, thoughts wanderandweavehow really lovely she washow, I always thought of herascomfortespecially, when wrapped in her armsand\u2026&nbsp; I&hellip; <br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5069\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5070,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[446,250,74,1201,85],"class_list":["post-5069","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-inthiswritersgarden","tag-measaflower","tag-toyouthisday","tag-womensday","tag-writelife"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5069","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5069"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5069\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5071,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5069\/revisions\/5071"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5070"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5069"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5069"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5069"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}