{"id":5215,"date":"2025-09-12T17:57:10","date_gmt":"2025-09-12T21:57:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5215"},"modified":"2025-09-12T17:57:10","modified_gmt":"2025-09-12T21:57:10","slug":"the-times-they-are-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5215","title":{"rendered":"the times they are a&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Today,<br>our anniversary<br>33 years, my love and I<br>as Mr. and Mrs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>what I was thinking about this morning,<br>those many years ago<br>we were married on a Saturday<br>went away for a few days<br>and my husband was back to work<br>by Tuesday<br><br>life is not linear<br>or fair<br>nor is it entirely clear or<br>at times<br>kind<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>a career you have given thirty-four years<br>of your life, as well<br>oftentimes, your family\u2019s<br>can be summarily dismissed<br>in the blink of an eye<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>terms like<br>restructured<br>and<br>without cause<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>knocks us<br>for a<br>loop<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>one thing I will tell you,<br>I am<br>fiercely protective<br>of my husband<br>and a heart<br>that carries mine<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>yesterday morning<br>a mild panic attack for me<br>daily pronouncements of hatred and vitriol<br>racism and bigotry, ignorance<br>repeated calls for increased violence<br>begets<br>more<br>violence<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and once again\u2026\u00a0 the great divide<br>widens<br>as true colours come<br>to the forefront<br>in people who knowingly<br>support<br>this kind of thing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>the tenuousness of<br>being here<br>in a world increasingly<br>lacking<br>in love and goodness knows,<br>kindness<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>for a time,<br>I often wondered how it was<br>in Hitler\u2019s reign<br>that neighbour could so readily and<br>so coldly<br>turn<br>on neighbour<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>now,<br>we just watch it unfold<br>on very small<br>screens<br>and believe ourselves removed<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>it\u2019s not always easy<br>to loudly celebrate <br>love<br>sometimes,<br>it has to sit<br>just<br>quietly<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>for awhile<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>to be<br>heard \u2665<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today,our anniversary33 years, my love and Ias Mr. and Mrs. what I was thinking about this morning,those many years agowe were married on a Saturdaywent away for a few daysand my husband was back to workby Tuesday life is not&hellip; <br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5215\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5216,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5215","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5215","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5215"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5215\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5218,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5215\/revisions\/5218"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5216"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5215"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5215"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5215"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}