{"id":5231,"date":"2025-10-04T16:52:37","date_gmt":"2025-10-04T20:52:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5231"},"modified":"2025-10-04T16:52:37","modified_gmt":"2025-10-04T20:52:37","slug":"signs-of-the-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5231","title":{"rendered":"signs of the times&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This week marked thirty years<br>that we have been<br>in our house<br>and always this day feels just like<br>love to me<br>clearly, I can remember coming to look at it<br>from our first tiny, green<br>house<br>to this lovely, large, older character<br>two small boys in tow<br>needing to expand<br>crazy to think what we paid for it<br>compared to today\u2019s markets<br><br>this morning a sold sign<br>goes up<br>on the house next door<br>and I realize that we<br>are the last<br>of the people that were here<br>when we came<br>of the nine or ten other houses on our street<br>every one has<br>changed hands<br>of course, I have mentioned, of our<br>snow shoveling days<br>how we kept things clear for three other couples<br>and one more, when a neighbour was ill<br>all gone now, one to long-term care<br>some lovely memories though<br>of very kind people, we were fortunate<br>to<br>know<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>today in the garden, a gorgeous October day<br>sunshine, blue skies, a light breeze<br>the Virginia Creeper changing colours<br>hangs scarlet along the fence<br>leaves on the crabapples have begun to yellow<br>dried out pinecone seeds are sailing<br>most things among the flowers are beginning to<br>fade<br>but for the goldenrod, and asters<br>as well the roses are still bursting with blooms<br>busy pollinators are gathering whatever bits of<br>sweetness remain<br>the small nuthatches, seem to be the politest<br>of birds<br>they swiftly dart in for seed<br>tiniest of gentle peeps<br>as if kindly asking permission<br>then dart off again to hide their fortunes<br>not like the blue jays, who will loudly announce<br>their arrival, and could the peanuts please,<br>be<br>at the ready<br>the abundance of chipmunks are keeping the<br>puppy busy on<br>traffic control<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>a little bit sad, that it appears our frog<br>may be gone, from the pond<br>as nights have been getting cooler<br>I haven\u2019t spotted him in a few days<br>somewhat hesitant, to poke around too much<br>and risk disturbing any inhabitants<br>the surface now covered in long rust-coloured<br>pine needles<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>this morning I was happy to see a gorgeous<br>dragonfly<br>wings glistening in the sun<br>and watch a bee dance happily in the<br>loveliest tufts of golden<br>flowers<br>all areas now showing sure signs of the season\u2019s<br>change<br>and the bareness of things<br>to follow<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can still feel myself, sort of<br>holding myself<br>through<br>as if, protecting what feels like<br>the fragileness of<br>common<br>goodness and<br>caring<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>while also, just<br>considering how<br>one might turn off more of the outside world<br>and tune in<br>more<br>to the sound of one\u2019s own<br>heart<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>for me, it\u2019s in finding something really lovely<br>in every day<br>be it magic, or presence,<br>wonder<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>or <br>love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>something that keeps my small flame<br>that kind of pilot-light<br>of <br>hope<br>for better things<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>lit \u00a0\u2665<br><br><em>I do hope this finds you well  <\/em>-^-<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB-1170x1560.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/29e11583-f24c-4ce8-8107-25615257c21bB.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This week marked thirty yearsthat we have beenin our houseand always this day feels just likelove to meclearly, I can remember coming to look at itfrom our first tiny, greenhouseto this lovely, large, older charactertwo small boys in towneeding to&hellip; 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