{"id":5295,"date":"2026-01-01T18:46:24","date_gmt":"2026-01-01T23:46:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5295"},"modified":"2026-01-01T18:46:25","modified_gmt":"2026-01-01T23:46:25","slug":"memories-and-merit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5295","title":{"rendered":"memories and merit&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>well then,<br>I have just finished a fantastic read<br>a beautiful gathering of correspondence<br>between six sisters, spanning the twentieth century<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>months long<br>I have happily wandered along<br>in slow<br>snippets<br>with these wonderful witty, eccentric, women<br>most enjoying every step<br><br>contrary to what one might think<br>knowing how very much I do <br>love<br>to read<br>quite often, I don\u2019t have as much time<br>as I would like<br>because of work, and family<br>holiday seasons and such<br>depths of despair and all that<br>life in general really<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>or possibly I just didn\u2019t feel I\u2019d be ready<br>to let them<br>go<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>as it was\u2026&nbsp;&nbsp; finishing that is,<br>I absolutely adored it all, and them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>most recently for us, over Christmas<br>my husband\u2019s Uncle died<br>Uncle Bill was a lovely, lovely man<br>sweet, funny and<br>kind<br>he seemed to me, a very gentle kind of spirit<br>always interested in what you<br>might have to say<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>when our oldest son, had left to university<br>the first away from home<br>Uncle Bill and Aunt Ruth were such lovely<br>first contacts to our son, and frequently they<br>had dinners together <br>most enjoyed<br>where our son, was highly entertained<br>by the great humour and jovial character<br>of this dear man<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>forever holding a very special place<br>in our hearts<br>and we all continually smile, holding fond thoughts<br>of Uncle Bill<br><br>such a blessing to know<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>savouring now as we are,<br>the last of the very full, but never the less<br>wonderfully relaxing days of Christmas and<br>New Year\u2019s with our own<br>immediate family<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>this morning I had a thought to<br>Christmas mornings when first married<br>my father-in-law making breakfast and the most delicious<br>poached eggs on English muffin<br>I ask my husband, if he remembers this<br>(as I don\u2019t suppose it was often my father-in-law was in the kitchen)<br>but\u2026&nbsp; he doesn\u2019t seem to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>after some difficult years and a somewhat<br>contentious relationship with him<br>gone now,<br>fifteen years<br>it is nice, I think<br>to have memories pop-up<br>quite lovely in<br>nature<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>in our current world, seemingly driven<br>by loud opinions and the pushing of<br>Hatfield and McCoy style<br>hard driving<br>gaping, insurmountable <br>divides<br><br>it\u2019s good sometimes to keep in mind<br>the wider vision of <br>those things<br>in <br>each other<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>to be<br>cherished \u00a0\u2665<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>well then,I have just finished a fantastic reada beautiful gathering of correspondencebetween six sisters, spanning the twentieth century months longI have happily wandered alongin slowsnippetswith these wonderful witty, eccentric, womenmost enjoying every step contrary to what one might thinkknowing how&hellip; <br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5295\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5296,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[293,375,1287,223,74,85],"class_list":["post-5295","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-beingkindness","tag-loveandloss","tag-memoriesandmerit","tag-noticelife","tag-toyouthisday","tag-writelife"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5295","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5295"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5295\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5298,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5295\/revisions\/5298"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5296"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5295"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5295"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5295"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}