{"id":5383,"date":"2026-04-10T15:09:32","date_gmt":"2026-04-10T19:09:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5383"},"modified":"2026-04-10T15:09:32","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T19:09:32","slug":"aside-from-all-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5383","title":{"rendered":"aside from all that&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Gazing out the window this morning<br>I watch a robin in the rain<br>poking holes in wet earth<br>searching for<br>worms<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am reading about cemeteries<br>which happen to be<br>something<br>that<br>I<br>love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>often you know, while reading, while<br>watching, while<br>learning<br>I will think to myself<br>This!<br>this is what I should be doing and<br>wouldn&#8217;t this<br>be the most wonderful profession<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>had I known<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>early in the week, I watched a documentary<br>of a man who<br>researched and developed a drug<br>to prevent the damage done by strokes<br>or maybe it was to prevent strokes altogether<br>anyway,<br>fascinated I say to my son<br>as he walks in the room<br>Wouldn&#8217;t it be cool, to be a Neuroscientist!?!<br>discovering and developing something<br>that saves lives<br>I mean, how cool is that!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>meanwhile, on most days<br>I am<br>not even sure of my own neurological capacities<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230; and that science-y bit<br>probably a bit of a challenge<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>still, a girl can dream, can&#8217;t she<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>this morning, back to my book<br>by the curator of a world famous Parisian cemetery<br>where he lives on the grounds with his family<br>and the history, the life, the wildlife<br>the presence, the lore<br>appearances, and<br>upkeep<br>our changing views on how things \u2018should\u2019 be<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>of course this all ties in so much<br>to my thoughts on<br>the garden<br>our conditioning and preferences<br>to pristine rules of<br>aesthetics<br>opposed as it often is to<br>nature<br>as well as our thoughts on death or our<br>avoidance thereof<br>as the natural course of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>life<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and I am always fascinated by just how<br>and when<br>we as societies decide<br>it is ours to overtake nature<br>to control and most often destroy<br>natural spaces, habitats and natural rhythms<br>to force all and every kind of native species<br>to conform to our<br>crisp lines and well-poisoned rules of<br>beautifying<br>things<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>we will marvel as a leaf falls<br>but never, ever<br>should it<br>land<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>as I sit here, the teeny, tiniest being<br>appears<br>on the pillow beside me<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and I am awed<br><br>the world is full of the most amazing<br>and wonderfully fascinating<br>human beings as well as all<br>of the natural world<br>around us<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>there really is never<br>any excuse<br>to <br>be<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>bored \u2665<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gazing out the window this morningI watch a robin in the rainpoking holes in wet earthsearching forworms I am reading about cemeterieswhich happen to besomethingthatIlove often you know, while reading, whilewatching, whilelearningI will think to myselfThis!this is what I should&hellip; 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