{"id":5479,"date":"2026-09-12T08:42:44","date_gmt":"2026-09-12T12:42:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5479"},"modified":"2026-09-12T08:42:44","modified_gmt":"2026-09-12T12:42:44","slug":"thirty-four","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5479","title":{"rendered":"thirty-four"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Thirty-four years of<br>this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>me and him<br>he<br>plus me<br>me plus<br>him<br><br>thirty-four<br>kind of<br>incredible, isn\u2019t it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>just the other day we stood<br>us two<br>outside the backdoor<br>laughing like<br>fools<br>about something I had said,<br>and almost instantly couldn\u2019t remember<br>about something he said<br>then<br>couldn\u2019t quite<br>say<br>and I wondered out loud through tears of<br>hilarity<br>just who, would allow the two of us<br>to be in charge of anything<br>marriage, houses, careers, four children<br>two cats, two dogs, two birds<br>who<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>who said, Yes to all<br>of this<br>You two&#8230; Go ahead and make a life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>while probably neither of us would willingly<br>bow<br>to authority<br>or someone telling us<br>what to do<br>we consciously and blissfully<br>stumbled in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>is every day sunshine and roses<br>are we always in-tuned to each other\u2019s feelings<br>and\/or<br>failings<br>do we never ever take each other for granted<br>are we always loving and most<br>kind<br><br>no<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>however<br>when I am having trouble falling asleep<br>I remember precisely when <br>it happened<br>after having known each other for maybe ten years<br>we somehow found<br>each other again<br>and<br>knew<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>did we know we would be here<br>did we know things would be easy, thrilling and fun<br>yet also, difficult and troubling and sometimes<br>tremendously<br>sad<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>did we know we would be stretched and<br>strained<br>yet remarkably somehow<br>strengthened<br>and<br>solid<br><br>together <br>the thick&#8230; and the<br>thin<br><br>did we know,<br>had we known<br>we\u2019d be laughing still<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>always enormously proud of my husband<br>fiercely protective of the heart he carries<br>inside his chest<br>and how right, he makes the world feel<br>for<br>me<br>he quite simply, is where<br>I<br>am<br>home<br><br>and today, as has become tradition<br>I am at home<br>while he&#8230;<br><br>he <br>is on a golf course somewhere  <br><br>Happy Anniversary my love<br>always and all <br>ways,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and ain&#8217;t love<br>grand \u2665 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thirty-four years ofthis me and himheplus meme plushim thirty-fourkind ofincredible, isn\u2019t it just the other day we stoodus twooutside the backdoorlaughing likefoolsabout something I had said,and almost instantly couldn\u2019t rememberabout something he saidthencouldn\u2019t quitesayand I wondered out loud through tears&hellip; <br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5479\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5482,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5479","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5479","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5479"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5479\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5487,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5479\/revisions\/5487"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5482"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5479"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5479"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5479"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}