{"id":5502,"date":"2026-10-09T16:46:06","date_gmt":"2026-10-09T20:46:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5502"},"modified":"2026-10-09T16:46:07","modified_gmt":"2026-10-09T20:46:07","slug":"reporting-for-duty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tamara.tedzplace.ca\/?p=5502","title":{"rendered":"reporting for duty&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Days when I am most<br>bothered<br>by that middle-aged<br>softer<br>around the centre bit<br>those nasty extra pounds that suddenly<br>appear<br>unwanted, and<br>unannounced<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>until you should attempt to<br>try on some clothes<br>(suitable for leaving the house)<br>and find, very little<br>that<br>fits<br><br>now, I will say, middle-aged<br>if that might even<br>be an accurate descriptor<br>as I am ever so fast<br>approaching sixty-<br><br>one<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>that\u2019s not middle, is it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>happens to the best of us, isn\u2019t that<br>some kind of saying<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>early mornings this week, I look up at the beautiful<br>crescent moon, where it hangs<br>in a still dark sky<br>on Tuesday, Saturn shining right above it<br>in the afternoon, I gather a large praying mantis <br>in my hands<br>rescue him from the trappings of a hot greenhouse<br>set him <br>free<br>on Thursday I marvel as now,<br>that moon <br>is merely a sliver<br>hanging quite low, the shadow of it\u2019s fullness<br>shading in<br>the<br>round<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>today is beautiful<br>blue skies and sunshine<br>and all colour<br>something to be said for October days<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>on my walk downtown<br>while I am<br>waiting for the light<br>a truck across the street, a workman with the<br>electrical box open<br>the police officer in the car beside me, gets out<br>she is just lovely, and she says to me<br>\u201cYou can cross,<br>the lights won\u2019t be working for a few minutes,<br>here\u2019s where I come in&#8230;\u201d<br><br>I smile and thank her for her kindness,<br>then I say, \u201cGood luck<br>and good wishes\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>as she moves to the centre of the busy intersection<br>to direct<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>in this brief exchange, I have not noticed<br>her age, or her<br>shape<br>I have noticed the friendliness in her smile<br>and the kindness she has<br>shown<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>this lovely smiling face carries me the rest of the way<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>do take some time in your day<br>to notice the beautiful things<br>not the <br>political things, not the<br>outrageous things, not the dis-<br>graceful <br>things<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>notice <br>the joyful things<br><br>and wherever you might be<br>in this day<br>I hope that you<br>are met<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>with kindness \u2665<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Days when I am mostbotheredby that middle-agedsofteraround the centre bitthose nasty extra pounds that suddenlyappearunwanted, andunannounced until you should attempt totry on some clothes(suitable for leaving the house)and find, very littlethatfits now, I will say, middle-agedif that might evenbe an&hellip; 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