Tamara Willems

joy in the memory of you..

A very dear friend of mine asked me if I could offer some words of comfort that she could share with a family member who had lost her Mother.  Although I was greatly honoured by this, I was a little hesitant and nervous, as I usually write just from my own personal feelings,  and I wasn’t sure if I would be able to offer something personal enough for someone else.  This is my offering   – I hope I have done justice to a life ..

 

Joy in the Memory of You

how do we ever
find the courage
to say goodbye

even when we know
a time will come
when we too
must let go
of someone so dear

and we can’t possibly
fathom
a life
without

the empty spaces
the flood of tears
the feeling of loss
is so great

how can we possibly
go on

it is somehow,
with Grace
as not to linger long
in mourning

it is
with Love
as instead more to a celebration
of a life well lived

it is
with Honouring
the beauty of the life
we have shared

it is
with Gratitude
for all that you
have been to me

it is for all of the gifts
you have given
me
and for all that I will
continue
to receive

this is the legacy
of Love
to live on in someone’s
heart
after you have gone

to live on in the lives
of those
who love you
and will remember you always
this
yes this, is the nature of
Love

and what a gift you
have given me
this Love

and I will always
meet you here

in my heart
where you have always been
and will always
remain

so now
when I think of you
let it not be with sadness
but with the Joy that comes
in realizing
that you have just
blessed me
with a visit
and
with Love ♥

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